Try the change as an experiment. You will enjoy it and you will want it for real… written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Try the change as an experiment. You will enjoy it and you will want it for real… written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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The biggest problem with the change, in fact the biggest barrier are the people around us.
They are used to see you in a certain way and the day the shift is happening, they will come to you and want to discuss about what is going on.
They will even argue with you, explaining that no matter what is going on it will not work.
Truth be told people dislike the change and even if they see this anywhere around them they will be always have something negative to say.
But there is a trick that you can do and you should try it as an experiment.
During the times, i probably had about 300 employees and i’ve always been a communist boss.
Never let them to speak, never paid them extra money for extra hours of work ... bottomline the worst example ever.
But that till the day i started to work with young students, when i realized that i had to change.
They were different of the ones of 30 or 35 and the way i was acting was not working anymore.
Today i only have one employee.
She has 22. I let let her argue with him.
If she asks me a day off, i always say yes.
If she ask me a bonus, i also say yes all the time.
She even told me one day that she saw that i changed a lot, but she does not want to talk about it, cause i might come back to the old way of being.
As a father ... i also failed.
I did not took care of my too boys and never payed attention to their thoughts and feelings.
I understood i need to make a change and i started with ... money.
You know money can solve most of our problems, even with the kids.
One week, i made an experiment.
I paid them a little bit more attention and started to give them daily small amounts of money.
We went out ... i bought them everything they asked for.
No argue with them.
By Saturday, my youngest son came to me and asked 50 usd.
I paid the money right away and gave to his brother 50 usd also.
And i heard them talking: “i think dad lost his minds. Everything we ask him, he says ... yes.
He is not greedy anymore”
This was the way a young boy of 7 years old was seeing everything.
He saw the change, thought that i lost my mind, but loved the change.
The trick worked.
You see, on the path of change, let anyone understand that you can also change in the relationship that you have with them.
This way, they will accept the change and see it as a beautiful swift.
Find the tricks you need to do and then enjoy the change for real.
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